Outnumbered

There are seasons of our life where we feel overwhelmed by our circumstances. We keep adding things to our “to do” list, and nothing is getting done. We have more bills than income. Everyone has their hand out, and it all seems like too much. We can’t seem to find any time for self care because everyone is pulling. We are outnumbered by our titles. We are outnumbered by our tasks. We are outnumbered by our sense of defeat. We can’t seem to find our way out. This is when we cry out. This is when we ask for help. This is when we find ourselves alone. There is help. There is hope. You are not alone.

Matthew 11:28-29  (KJV)  Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.

Memories

 “Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment, until it becomes a memory.”- Dr. Seuss

We take so much for granted. Time with children and loved ones is fleeting. We can’t stop time. We have to live in the moment before they become memories. We have to cherish every kiss, every hug because we just never know when we won’t get that opportunity again. I’m not saying live in fear. I am saying live in love. Love each other. Understand the value of friendships and relationships. Make memories that will last.

Casualties

There will always be casualties. Unintentional hurt and damage caused by unforeseen and known circumstances. It is unavoidable.  Collateral damage is a part of the game. Translation: You can't make everyone happy. Everyone will not support your decisions. Everyone will not get it. People will disagree, and you will have to pick up the pieces and keep it moving. It's not personal. 

Talkers

We all know them. We love them. They tell the best stories. They are entertaining. They are likable. They are talkers. There is nothing wrong with talkers until you need a doer. Sometimes, talkers can be doers, but a lot of the time, they are just that “all talk.” There will come a point in your life when you will prefer a prayer and a doer over a taker and a talker.

Agree

Amos 3:3-5 (KJV) Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Is it possible to walk with someone you disagree with? Yes, but it will be very difficult to go in the same direction with the same heart and mindset if you don’t agree. Many of us find ourselves trying to walk in disagreement with family, friends, and co-workers. Why? It makes the journey that much harder. Find people who you are going where you want to go. Find people in similar walks of life. Diversity is great. Disagreement is not. People don’t have to look like you to think like you and have the same spirit as you. Be open to new agreements, new perspectives and new opportunities. Walk and Agree.

Buried Treasure

The Alchemist is one of my favorite books. The main character goes on a journey to find some buried treasure. In the end, he does find it, just not where he thought it would be. Many of us look for treasure where it can’t be found. Many of us bury the gifts and talents that God has given us. We do not take full advantage of all the opportunities that are given to us. Maximize today. Maximize every day, and every opportunity. Dig up those talents and gifts. Brush them off and give them a second try. I implore you to not die a buried treasure.

Worthy

I'm not sure exactly when it happens. I don't know when we begin to doubt ourselves, but it happens. We remember a past failure. We reflect on a situation that didn't work out the way we thought. Before we know it, those seeds of doubt have taken root in our heart. We don't believe. We distrust. We second guess. We focus on the negative. We forget. We forget our purpose. We forget to smile. We forget to love. We forget ourselves. We forget our worth. Remember who you were before fear. Remember who you were before the pain. Remember who you were before you stopped believing. Remember your worth. You're worthy of all God has for you. You're worthy of love and respect. You're worthy of kind words and acceptance. You're worthy.